The Five Stages That Lead to Divorce

Mar 07, 2024 | News On Japan

TOKYO - In any long-term marriage, it's not uncommon for discord to arise between spouses. This time, we'll introduce "5 stages" that could potentially lead to divorce.

The Five Stages That Lead to Divorce 【要注意】「もう俺ら終わりにしよ」離婚を引き寄せる5ステージ

Conversations Only About Household Chores

At the beginning of a marriage, couples always had lively conversations, but recently, for some reason, there are no more topics to talk about, and conversations only happen when doing household chores... This is a danger sign for such couples. That's why it's important to have discussions, and you must not forget to do so. If you find it bothersome to talk with your partner because you're tired, the likelihood of divorce naturally increases.

Not Reconciling After a Fight

When couples fight, they usually reflect on the situation or one person apologizes to rebuild the relationship. If that's the case, there's no danger of divorce. However, when the willingness to compromise disappears, it's possible that you've taken the first step towards divorce. In such cases, it's best to make an effort to improve the relationship as soon as possible.

Avoiding Problems

Even when there are issues, if a couple can't properly discuss them, their relationship might collapse. If you're only insisting on your own arguments during a dispute, the risk of divorce increases further. If there's a problem, communicate it properly and look for solutions together.

Blaming Each Other

When issues arise in family life or parenting, blaming your partner or pointing fingers can also lead to divorce. If this continues, it could end up with accusations like "Our unhappy family life is your fault!" At that point, the relationship is likely on the brink of breakdown.

Preventing Divorce with a Sincere Heart

There's a slight difference between couples who divorce and those who remain happy, and ultimately, this leads to different outcomes. First, remember to have compassion for your partner.

Source: MDPR

Four Dead and Six Missing As Typhoon No. 25 Moves Away

Typhoon No. 25 had left four people dead and six others missing in Chiba and Kanagawa prefectures by September 22, as the storm moved away from Japan and the extent of flooding and landslide damage across the Kanto region became clearer.

Typhoon No. 25 Continues to Disrupt Transportation

Transport disruption from Typhoon No. 25 continued across Chiba Prefecture on September 22 even as flights and major highways returned toward normal, with entire sections of the JR network remaining suspended for the day and all Narita Express services canceled because of flooding, landslides and damage to railway infrastructure.

Japan Pushes India to Final Ball in Historic Sano Cricket Match

Japan came within two runs of producing one of international cricket's biggest upsets on September 22, pushing reigning T20 world champion India to the final ball before losing a rain-shortened match at Sano International Cricket Ground in Tochigi Prefecture.

Japan Secures More Medals as Asian Games Day 4 Intensifies

Japan's Asian Games campaign continued across a packed Day 4 schedule on September 22, with the women's badminton team securing another medal, the women's basketball team completing an unbeaten group stage, and Japan adding a historic bronze medal in mixed air rifle shooting as several of the host nation's biggest medal opportunities moved into the evening.

Japan Takes 12 Medals on Asian Games Day 3

Japan collected another 12 medals on Day 3 of the Aichi-Nagoya Asian Games on September 21, with 17-year-old swimmer Shin Ohashi and karateka Kakeru Nishiyama winning gold, while the host nation also advanced strongly in women's volleyball, baseball, soccer, handball and hockey.

MEDIA CHANNELS

MORE Society NEWS

Japan's Elderly Population Hits Record 29.6%

People aged 65 and older accounted for a record 29.6% of Japan's population in 2026, the highest proportion among major countries worldwide, while the number of elderly people in employment also reached an all-time high as Japan marked Respect for the Aged Day on September 21.

Emperor and Empress Visit Ghibli Park

Emperor Naruhito and Empress Masako visited Ghibli Park in Aichi Prefecture on September 20, touring exhibits that recreate famous scenes from Studio Ghibli films and posing for a photograph with the character No-Face.

Four Teens Rearrested Over Fatal Assault on 17-Year-Old

Police in Kanagawa Prefecture have rearrested four teenagers on suspicion of murdering a 17-year-old high school student who died after being assaulted in Sagamihara in August.

Why Kansai People Go to Drinking Parties

Drinking parties remain a lively part of social life in Kansai even as younger generations increasingly turn away from alcohol and izakaya bankruptcies rise at a record pace, with customers describing the gatherings less as occasions to drink heavily and more as opportunities to maintain friendships, meet new people and build connections across generations.

'Tokuryu' Criminal Gangs Target Elderly Victims with Refrigerator Trick

Anonymous and fluid criminal groups known in Japan as "tokuryu" are adopting increasingly elaborate tactics, including a scheme in which elderly victims are persuaded to hide cash inside refrigerators before thieves enter their homes, as authorities struggle to combat networks whose members often have no direct contact with one another.